I don't fix problems. I fix my thinking and the problems go away ~ Louise Hay

You will notice a lot of similarity in the Solutions to our Different Problems for a reason. They all stem from the same "illusion" and misunderstanding of who we are and why we are here. This in turn causes us to play this game we call Life ~ Upside Down and Inside Out. 


I personally consider this to be the real Root of All Evil and Suffering. 


The only way to Solve our problems permanently is to gain a new understanding of who we are and why we are here. And once we do, we will be playing by the right rules and winning. 

Compare the below Metaphysical perspectives to the way most currently experience things and see if you don't believe that make common sense and would be a radical change. 

If you judge a fish by his ability to climb a tree it will grow up thinking it is stupid.

~ Albert Einstein

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Yesterday I was clever, and wanted to change the world. Today I am wise and will change myself ~ Rumi

Solving Problems

I keep having the same problem.

Self Conscious of Body

Similar to, or even related to low self esteem is being body conscious. Remember, our bodies are not who we are, nor do they define us. But they do play a key part in the role we play in this reality and help us have the experiences necessary to learn the lessons we are here to learn. Look closedly at the experiences you are having related to your physical appearance. Perhaps the negativity or limitations you are experienceing are the lessons you are here to learn. We all do the best we can with what we have. Problem Solved ~ Always remember we are not our bodies. And find comfort in knowing they were given to us as part of our experience that allows us to learn the lessons we are here to learn. And if that doesnt work, consider this: Who cares what others think? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. All the world is a stage Judge not for ye be judged. Resistance is suffring.

Low Self Esteem or Self Worth

Personally, this one drives me nuts. How can anyone possibly feel "less than" or "not good enough" or "don't deserve to be happy" when the Meta~physical fact of the matter is we are all the same. Here is an example I like to use. Consider a video game. There may be a queen that needs saving, the hero who needs to save her (this is your character), and a ton of zombies that need to die in between. On one level (in the "physical" game) they all look different, have different abilities as you would think, and play the roles they are meant to play. On another level, they are all digital lights, sprites and colors on your TV or computer screen. All created by electricity. And beyond that, they were created by binary code: 0's and 1's. Again, the universe is dual. So wether we look at the queen, the hero (you), or the zombies, Everyone is the Same!(period) Consider: All the worlds a stage Shakespeare (DO unto others luv thy neighbor?) If you die in your dreams E=MC2

Why am I here?

What do you LOVE to do? What are you most passionate about, or brings you the most joy and happiness? Ever hear someone say someone has "God given talents". Well...? Just like we born into our "physical" bodies for a reason, we were each given specific talents for a reason as well as limitations. Again, to give us that specific experience. But on the other level ~ We were also put here to experience limitation and to learn from our mistakes. And if you listen very hard, the tune will come to you at last. ~ Led Zeppelin, Stairway to Heaven.

Drugs, Alcohol, Gambling and other vices

Just like any other issues we may have, these "monkeys" on our backs are there to give us the experience we need to learn from in this lifetime. In addition, these "monkeys" also often affect the people around us. Which becomes part of the experience they are having to help them learn the lessons they are here to learn. And that is part of the reason they are close to you and are affected by them. Bottom Line ~ You can use your free will to better control or or get rid of the monkeys (and your life experience will take a new path.) Or you can choose to keep the monkeys on your back and nothing will change. It's really that simple. The choice is yours, and that is your free will. Having said that, I can tell you the absolute hardest thing I have ever done in my life was to quit smoking. I started at age 12 and wasnt able to quit till I was 30. And like many others, my life has been affected by friends and family members who got into meth. So I get it. No man is an island unto himself. If you chose not to decide, you still have made a choice. ~ Rush, Free Will

Interpersonal Relationships

Many like to think of finding their soul mate. Or that they are not complete without someone else. Consider "All the World is a Stage and we are merely actors playing our parts." Some people will be of little significance to our lives such as the waiter who served your salad at lunch or the landscaper who fixed your leaky sprinkler system. Others will be our greatest Life Teachers. Some will be people we like or even love. Others may be the biggest pains in our asses. These are the ones we want to pay special attention to, becuase thay are "here" to help us have the experiences we are meant to have and learn the lessons we are meant to have and move on. Lesson ~ Pay close attention to those in your life that play a Significant role. For better or for worse. As they are here to teach your soul something valuable. All the world is a stage. ~ Shakespeare Not all that glitters is made of gold. Our greatest enemies are our greatest teachers.~ Buddha. Thats which you reists persists ~ Carl Jung Life is a series of doors. Our choice is to open or pass them by. ~ Mystery School Teaching The Butterfly Effect

I keep banging my head getting nowhere.

This may be for one of two reasons. The hard part for many is determining whch reason applies to them or their specific situation. Lets say you want to be a famous singer. But honestly sound like a cat screaming in pain. Well, if you continue persue this dream, you will likley experience a lot of resistance. Sad but true. On the oher hand, maybe you have a loved one that exhibits self destrutive behavior that you are trying to help them with. That which you reists not only perssts but gets ~ Carl Jung If at first you do not succeed, try try again.

Major and/or Sudden Change

Lets face it. We are creatures of habit. God forbid I ever wake up and not have a pot of hot coffee waiting for me. Maybe not a huge thing to some, but for me its a "day changer" Only Option ~ Accept that we cannot change "out there" and only have domain over how we percieve and feel about something. Resistance is suffering. ~ The Buhdda Let go and Let God. It is what it is. Roll with the punches.

Death of a friend or loved one

Losing Business or Empoyment

I have been very blessed to play the role of a successful self employed health insurance broker for the better part of my 26 year insurance carrer. As you may understand, that is a long time of doing the same thing to now be facing such incredible change in my business. So this is one hits very close to home. I get it. In my new world, the vast majority of my sales are during the Medicare and Obamacare Open Enrollments. Then I have a lot of free time to devote to my new "business" ~ My Metaphysical Ministery. So as you can see, I am taking advantage of the new slow period I have to sart buidling a new business based on my deepest passion. So I am not just saying one thing and doing another thing here. TWO THINGS On the other hand, Bottom line Resistane is Suffering follow your heart. Its not what you look at. Its what you see. Its not the load on your back. Its th way you carry it. It is what it is. Whatever will happen will happen. Whatever is meant to be will be. You cant open a new window until you close the old one. If you love what you do, you will never work a day in your life ~ Lao Tzu? Allt he worlds a stage

Mental Health Issues

If you believe the Universe is Infintate, and Nikola Tesla's quote below, then it stands to reason that there are an infinate number of frequencies or vibrations. Although the human brain has it's stark limits, some people may have access to frequencies not available to everyone. Some might look at psychics or mediums much that way. Lets just say for arguments sake, that the average "normal" person's brain can pick up 20 htz to 20K Htz. Maybe someone with chronic depression's brain is stuck at the 20htz or even below. Or a bi-polar has a range of 50htz to 50Khtz and tends towards the extremes. Or a Shizophrenic who sees and hears things other do not. Who is to say they aren't accessing different frequencies and vibrations other can't? And they become part of that persons "reality" when the vast majority of others can't and so don't understand. One way to look at it as we are like TV's. Some people use rabbit ears, others have basic cable and the few have the premium package. Haven't you ever met someone you thought may be missing a few channel's...? Regardless, this is part of our physical "body's" creating our reality for us to experience and learn from. Consider: If you want to know the secrets of the universe... As above, So Below

Physical Health Issues

Very similar to Mental Health, these are given to us to have certain experiences so that we can learn the corresponding lessons. Obviously someone who is super healthy will have a different life experience than someone with severe COPD, in a coma or is a quadrapalegic. But they will have their own and different issues to deal with. Maybe they are raising their grandchildren becuase thier son or daughter got too deep into meth or heroin. Or they lost everything in a huge house fire. Pick your poison. Right? Bottom line ~ Our health is part of our life experience and journey no different than anything else. And improving or accepting it is our free will.

I Just Want to Be Happy

This is and has always been my driving force to Seek the truth almost my entire life. So I get it! Money cant buy you happiness You only live once If you want to be happy. Be ~ Lao Tzu We are here to be happy ~ Dalai Llama Alexander the Great 3 Last wishes. Happiness is a decision ~ Lao Tzu

No matter where you go, there you are ~ Saying

I keep having the same Problem
Do you believe you are here for a reason, things happen for a reason or that our souls are here to learn and evolve? 
Perhaps your "ego" has not yet been ready to learn and accept the lesson repeatedly being shown to you. Just like a leaky faucet, it will drip drip drip until you finally choose to fix it. And then the problem naturally goes away.  
Consider problems as the universe speaking to you. And although patient and persistent, it tends to increase its voice over time. If the Universe wants something, it can make it happen. I have personally found that the longer I resist its message, the more severe its response will finally and ultimately be. 
Solution ~ Learn to see the Universe's message, and heed them sooner than later. 
No Matter where you go, there you are.  
That which you resists persist~Jung
Resistance is suffering ! Buddha
Go with the Flow~ Dao?
The Definition of insanity
Self Conscious of body
Do you believe we are not our bodies? If so, then consider your body as a vehicle to experience this physical reality. Nothing less and nothing more. 
Just like someone pulling up to a party in a red Ferrari vs an old clunker, people will naturally view them differently and thus act differently towards them. This in turn gives those people different life experiences with their own set of problems. 
(And this is part of their journey to experience and learn from)
Consider a very beautiful woman. Men will be all over her for her body. And so she may experience very shallow and meaningless relationships with men. On the other hand she will likely have more doors of opportunity open to her and thus help her and achieve what we view as success in western culture. (Conditioning & Duality at work)
Now consider just the opposite. A woman who may not be as physically attractive could have just the opposite experiences. She may not have doors of opportunity fly open for her, but she may more likely find a man who loves and adores her for who she really is. 
Either way, our bodies are just that  They are in no way who we really are, but rather play a crucial role in giving us the necessary experiences for our souls to learn and evolve. Remember ~ Things happen for a reason. And that includes the body you were given, the parents you were born to and the part of the world you live in. Just do the best you can with what you were given, and realize you are having the experience your soul was meant to have. 
Never judge a book by its cover ~ Idiom
A wise man knowing reality is an illusion does not act as if it is and so escapes the suffering. ~ The Buhdda
It is what it is ~ Idiom
If you want to be happy. Be. ~ Lao Tzu
Consider This
Who doesn't like a good head scratcher every once in a while?
Somethings just don't seem to make sense, until you gain a new and proper perspective of them. Then its a whole ball game..
Common Problems
Everyone has "stuff" going on. Could trying a new and very different approach create a new and very different result?
View a list of common problems people suffer with, and how seeing them from a Meta~physical perspective could radically change the way we experience different situations for the better. 
How it Works
If you are like me, it can really help to see how something works to better understand it. Especially if it is a new concept. 
See how many Metaphysical concepts play out in our daily lives. Talk about hiding in Plain Sight...
Know Thyself
As Shakespeare famously said in Hamlet "All the world's a stage and we are merely actors playing our roles"
Wouldn't better knowing our character and our role give us more confidence and allow us to give a better performance?